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An Interview with Teresa Fillmon

By: Leslie Battiste – June 2004

 

How did you become involve in the Ukraine ministry and what prompted you to start His Kids Too!?teresa.jpg

My background is Psychology and Social Work. My occupation was in helping people. When the opportunity arose to help people with a clothing ministry through Rich’s job at J.C. Penney, we started helping here in the community. That was in 1986. We still continue this ministry, under the name of Captital City Clothing Connection. When I met some missionaries from Albania, they asked for assistance and I could not refuse them. Then, other local people who support missionaries in many places started asking for help. We began this ministry in boxes and now we have distributed a material inventory of over $400,000 and have served over 50,000 people in 18 years. Who knows the domino effect. We do not receive any government funding and rely solely on private donations for our funding.

In 2000, people wanted to start providing funds so that I could make purchases in-country for the orphans and people. Some in-country purchases can be made and this helps generate the local economy. It is VERY important that ‘locals’ see that you believe their products are worthy of your ‘American dollars’, and not just ship everything to the country you are serving. We formed His Kids, Too! in 2000 so that people could receive a tax benefit for their donations.

We presently serve people in: Ukraine, Albania, Russia, Nigeria, Kazakhstan. In the past we have also served in: Mexico, Cuba, China, Italy, and Bosnia. If the Lord opens a door, we will gladly go back to any country.

 

Explain the goals of His Kids Too!

The goal of His Kids, Too! is to bring the gospel of Jesus Christ to people while meeting their most basic needs. It is hard to talk to someone about God, or show them the love of God, if they are sick, unclothed and hungry. They just can’t ‘hear’ the message.

 

Tell what types of facilities you support with humanitarian aid (i.e. orphanages, etc.) and in what cities.

In Ukraine alone, His Kids, Too! supports, hospitals (both adult and children’s), children’s shelters, several orphanages, Internat (this is for children 5-17 yrs. of age), mental hospital, aids children’s hospital, orthopedic hospital, Cerebral Palsy Group in Kyiv, widow feeding program in Donetsk and Dzerzhinsk. In total we are working in 11 facilities with over 2500 children and hundreds of adults. In Albania, we support three orphanage facilities with over 300 children.

 

Tell in general about the people who benefit from the aid and give an example of someone who you have assisted.

The people who benefit are people just like you and I. They want to wear clean clothes, want food for their children and medical care, they want a future…….they are no different from us. It is our God given opportunity to serve them. We have placed special needs children in loving Christian homes whereas they would have been placed in a horrid institution. We have helped children without wheelchairs have mobility by providing a wheelchair. Children without clothing, coats, shoes, boots, personal care products, are all provided with these items…….because of donations. His Kids, Too! is just the messenger of your love for Christ. We can’t do this alone.

 

Who else is involved in His Kids Too! and what do they do?

Board Members, are: Lynn Allison, Donetsk, Ukraine; Ray Grayham, Donetsk, Ukraine; Nikka Donetsk, Ukraine. In-country aid distribution; Rich Fillmon, Tallahassee; Organization Communication Director, Teresa Fillmon/ Founder/Director. Additionally, we have over 20 active volunteers in several roles: donation collections, grant writing, sorting items, fundraising, letter writing, and more.

 

Tell something about yourself – when & where baptized. Other businesses. Hobbies (if you have any spare time!), how long married.

I was born and raised in Clearwater, Florida. I graduated from University of South Florida in Tampa with a double major in Psychology and Sociology. I met Rich on Thanksgiving Day 1982, and we married Sept. 3, 1983. I worked in my field for several years, but after having children, I went back to cleaning houses, which is what I started when I was 13 yrs. old. I was baptized May 28, 1989, in the University Church of Christ. I have 3 biological children, Dallas, 17, Lydia, 14, Haley 13, and we adopted Artur, and Alyssa (Alla) from Ukraine. Lena joined our family in January 2003 and she is also from Ukraine. I LOVE to fish, but don’t get to go enough……

 

Tell something about Dallas, Lydia and Haley including their work with the ministry.

Dallas, Lydia and Haley are great kids. Dallas and Haley have a wonderful nurturing side to them, whereashaley.jpg Lydia is more outgoing and playful. They each play a vital and important role in the ministry. Each LOVES to go to Ukraine, and hold, play and interact with the children. Dallas is wonderful for carrying all the heavy boxes; Lydia and Haley for sorting and sizing up kids for clothes. Each have their special stories about individual kids that they have grown attached to.

 

Tell about adopting Artur and Alla. Also Lena.

Originally, we wanted to adopt from Albania, but it was closed to Americans adopting for quite sometime. Then I was invited to Ukraine, and we decided that this may be a good international adoption choice. We started the process, and then I traveled to Ukraine in October 1998. We completed our paperwork and travel in Feb. 1999 to adopt Anatolyi, but after arriving the officials said we could not adopt this child (giving no reason). It was extremely difficult not to just leave, but we knew that God had put us there to adopt a child, and He directed us towards Artur. Artur is doing well, but has abandonment issues, since his biological mother left him at 14 months. The transition has had its ups and downs and we appreciate the kindness and encouragement we have received from our church friends. We still think about Anatolyi and pray for him. As far as we know, he is still in Ukraine.

After meeting Alla in 2000, we just prayed for this cute little girl. Each time I visited the orphanage I wouldartur and alla.jpg specifically ask about her, and they would tell me, ‘no one wants her…just look at her….’ It was very sad, and time after time, I would see her, and she was VERY sad. I never saw her smile. During our summer trip of 2002, I was told she would be sent to an institution until at least 18 yrs. of age due to her disability and lack of adoptability. When Rich saw my grief over knowing that Alla would be institutionalized, he said, ‘let’s adopt her.’ We finally got to Alla on Christmas Eve 2002, and asked her if she wanted a ‘mom and dad, and a big family’ (It was important that she wanted to go with us, and that we just not make her). She smiled for the first time, and said, hesitantly, ‘yes, I want a family.’ I cried, as did many others in the room. The worst part of that day (Christmas Eve), was leaving her. She looked at us, and you could see that she didn’t think we were going to return, even after much assurance. Christmas Day, could not have been better, as we went to the orphanage, and waited for Alla. When she came into the room, she just ran into my arms, saying, ‘mama, mama, you came back.’. I said, ‘I told you I would, I love you!’. Haley took her and started to play with her, and that day, for the very first time, Alla laughed! It was a wonderful Christmas, even though we were 7000 miles from Lydia and Dallas (which was EXTREMELY hard for us). She left that orphanage on December 28th with many tears from the workers and director. Alla was smiling ear to ear, saying, ‘I’m going to America with my family!’.

I met Lena in 1998 on my first trip to Ukraine. She and I had an instant ‘bond’ and with each visit we grew closer. When she was able she started translating for me, and that drew us closer. She was granted the visa, and has been living with us for 16 months going to school at TCC. She will start FSU in the fall, where she has received a partial scholarship in music.

 

How can people assist in your ministry? I know you need volunteers.

His Kids, Too! always need volunteers to assist with donation collection, fundraising efforts and networking supplies. New and used items are frequently needed, but funds are also needed for the ongoing programs that we have in Ukraine. Additionally, making in-country purchases is vital to their economy.

All His Kids, Too! staff are volunteers. We pay for our own travel expenses and any other expenses of His Kids, Too!. All donations to His Kids, Too! are tax deductible and benefit widows, orphans and other needy people. We encourage people to review the website (www.Hiskidstoo.org) for detailed reports on how the funds are spent, and view the hundreds of photos of my frequent trips to Ukraine.

His Kids, Too! is an avenue to take the word of God to the lost of this world, by meeting their individual needs while showing them the love of the Lord. Many times we think of people in far away lands and think they are unreachable………just a long way away. His Kids, Too! tries to bring a face to those people, and provide others with an opportunity to serve them, changing lives one at a time …….because remember even though you may not know them personally, and they don’t live around the corner, or in another state, but across the world, they are His kids….too!

Natasha’s Story

In 2004 it came to our attention that a young girl, Natasha was in dire need of medical attention due to Treacher Collins Syndrome.

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Treacher Collins Syndrome is a rare inherited disorder characterized by distinctive abnormalities of the head and facial (craniofacial) area due to underdevelopment (hypoplasia) of certain portions of the skull (e.g., supraorbital rims and zygomatic arches). Although the symptoms and physical characteristics associated with Treacher Collins Syndrome can vary greatly in severity from patient to patient, craniofacial abnormalities tend to involve the cheekbones, jaws, mouth, ears, and/or eyes. If Natasha did not receive medical assistance she would have eventually gone blind due to the lack of cheek bones to support the eye sockets.

His Kids, Too! started investigating medical resources to assist with thisfresh start.jpg problem, and Fresh Start Surgical Gifts in San Diego California gladly accepted her as a case. After a host family was secured with, George and Helen R. of San Diego, Natasha and her grandmother made the 8500 mile trek to California. Arriving in April of 2005, Natasha's treatment plan was started and she has progressed. The treatment will continue for at least the next 36 months.

Fresh Start has been wonderful, and the host family totally accommodating to their needs. Even after arriving and 'grandma' having a terrible growth in her upper arm, the host family, though able to secure some medical treatment for this cancerous growth, the grandmother decided to return to Ukraine forRiley.jpg treatment. She is presently in Ukraine.

We would like to thank Fresh Start Surgical Gifts, the wonderful host family, Canyon View Church of Christ, and the donors who have specifically supported this medical need. Your funds went directly to help with airfare, and for their living expenses. We encourage anyone wanting to support this extension of the ministry to contact us directly.

December 2006 – Updated Photos of Natasha – surgery is still in progress:

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Dec 2010

I’d like to express my gratitude for your attention to our children. Many residents of our children’s home are deprived of parental guardianship due to various circumstances: irresponsible or asocial behaviour of parents, deprivation of paternal rights, illness or death of parents. Most likely, for these reasons, we adults have a certain moral obligation in relation to such children. We ourselves try to improve their lives and ask for the help of others.

We would be very much obliged to you if you find the possibility to congratulate our children on New Year and Christmas.

Sincerely,

Head physician of the centre “Health”,

Municipal TB sanatorium

№ 6 for children,

Donetsk

_______________ Alexander Stepanenko

Lomonosov Str. 1,

Donetsk, Ukraine, 83042

March 2008

His Kids Too! is happy to announce that for the year 2007, $30,704 was awarded in grant for those adopting internationally.


March 2008
Thank you very much for your interesting and useful lectures for our school children and teachers. It was nice of you to find the time and desire to come here and give us help which is needed. We wish you all the luck and happiness. Remember, that you are always welcome here!
The pupils and teachers of School #18, Zheleznoe village, Donetsk region

March 2008
Dear Friends,
The Administration of Dzerzhinsk Secondary School #9 is very grateful for your interesting and informative work with 10 and 11 grades. We wish you success in promoting healthy style of life,
The Principle
T.A. Tihonova

March 2008
Mrs. Teresa!
We would like to express our words of gratitude for your work in our school. You lectures left a great impression on our children. You left a piece of your soul in our children’s lives. Now we know that our problems may concern not only us but also such great people as you are. We would like you to visit us again, and have such capturing lectures. You are wonderful psychologists. It is proved by the fact that you are able to connect with our children easily.
We thank you for your heartfelt work and care,
The Director of the School
V.N. Lyulkovich

Dear Teresa,
The administration of the school #7 thanks you for the organization of the wonderful lectures, for your great helping in bringing up and providing the ‘healthy way of live’. We highy apprecaite your desire to bring up a healthy generation on our planet.
Sincerely,
School Principal I.V. Boldyreva

Fall 2007

The staff of Dzerzhinsk Department of Education is grateful to you for organizing seminars on formation health way of life. Your great work had a success among the students and teachers of our city.

We hope for our mutual cooperation in future. We will be happy if you could find an opportunity to organize such work with teachers boys.

Sincerely,

Chief Director of Dzerzhinsk City, Department of Education

Subsequent letters from:

School #2

School #17

School #6


Letter of Thanks

The teaching staff and students of middle school #20 of the city of Dzerzhinsk express their sincere gratitude to the group of teachers from the USA and Teresa Fillmon personally for organizing a seminar on Living a Healthy Lifestyle. We greatly appreciate your work with the teenagers of our school on the topics of destructive habits, early sexual relations, AIDS and sexually transmitted diseases.
We share your concern about the health of the youth of our planet and hope to continue our co-operation.

Director of Middle School #20 L. Glyshchenko


Thank you so much for your wonderful donation of test strips, glucometers and syringes. Our Diabetic Association here in Donetsk, Ukraine has only 18 members but we are trying to keep them in insulin and glucometers plus the testing strips to check their blood sugar. Your generous donation has helped us so much. Some of our members are amputees to diabetes that got out of control. Some of them are totally blind. We are hoping that doesn’t happen again. This we are trying to prevent!
I once again wish to express my immense appreciation for your contribution toward helping the diabetics most of whom are fellow Christians! Their needs are very real! They cannot possibly provide for buying glucometers, strips, plus insulin, the life saving drug they cannot live without!
Each month we minister to 18 diabetics, 4 of which are juvenile diabetics. It now costs $1300-1400 per month to keep our organization going and able to help those in desperate needs for their very lives. And we are very appreciated to everyone who helps to those people. Because if we have no money to provide their medicines and the testing strips, they can lose hope to live.

As the one who purchases and administers these funds and supplies let me thank you personally for making my job of serving these people easier!

In Christian love,
Ludmila Torshina

Summer 2007

Dear Teachers!

We wanted to thank you for being so kind to us, for you being so attentive. I wanted to say though because you spend your precious time with us, and taught us good things. That is why we love you so much. We want to say thank you for the lessons of wisdom and kindness you’ve taught us, for your gifts. May God protect you and your family. May your friends and relatives always support you.

From the students of the Bible camp 2007, with love and appreciation.

Dzerzhinsk, Internot 2007

Dear Brothers and Sisters in Florida,

I thank Teresa Fillmon and God for this great work that has been done with kids in Dzerzhinsk Internot. This is an incredible labor and it can’t be estimated financially because it involved love, and warmth of heart and soul. Also brothers and sisters that came this time have helped a lot; kids were glad to have this time in the camp. Their eyes were filled with joy when they saw their teachers. They completed their tasks with pleasure and were always ready to answer questions from the Bible.

This whole they’ll keep their new friends in their memories and they will be looking forward to meeting them again.

May God always give strength to Teresa and her family, to all brothers and sisters that came here. May the Church grow spiritually and may God reward everybody up to what they have done.

With love of Christ Jesus our Savior,

Zhenya

February 2007

His Kids, Too! is happy to announce they were able to provide funds to assist in the purchase of quartz lamps for Gagarinsky orphange in Simferopol Ukraine.


February 2007
Donetsk City Shelter for Children and Teenagers
Donetsk, Ukraine

To the Charitable Organization “His Kids Too”,

The administration of the Donetsk City Shelter for Children and Teenagers No. 2 wishes to express their deep appreciation for your numerous acts of charity for our children.

We appreciate your working together with us.

With gratitude,

A. A. Dryomova
Director of Shelter No. 2


February 2007

APPRECIATION
The educational staff of the Novozhelanovski specialized general education school-internat, is appreciative to the charitable organization “His Kids Too!” for their attention to children-orphans. The office supplies given assisted the children in the process of studying and development. The classes you conducted with child-care workers in the school provided the children with many positive emotions.

M. V. Zverev
Director

Winter 2006

Travel Report – Winter 2006

The winter of 2006, a most brutal one, brought much, snow, sleet, hail, and Floridian Rich Fillmon to Ukraine. The journey began Jan. 18, arriving in Ukraine to blizzard conditions I traveled with His Kids, Too! board members, Lynn and Ray. After 2 days of travel, I arrived in Dzerzhinsk. The roads were so bad that the driver could not take us down the street to the house, and we were forced to walk 300 yards. through 3 ft. of snow.

 

The purpose of this trip was to work with the church in Dzerzhinsk, distribute thousands of pounds of aid to orphans, and finalize the plans for the spring workshop. We encourage you to review the photos in the Photo Gallery. There are not a lot, due to the freezing temps, the camera froze several times, but I was able to ‘capture’ the essence of his trip.

 

First stop was the Dzerzhinsk Internot where the director warmly welcomed us. The children were thrilled to see us, as this is where the annual Bible camp is held, and the kids all love to see us. Sound Bible teaching, and genuine love for the children is evident in their response to this visitor. They had a small group for church, as most of the children were in homes, trying to stay warm, as the pipes froze at the school/orphanage. Returning the next day, we took several boxes of clothing, and purchased fruit for the Go Bananas for Orphans program. These children receive weekly fruit, because of the efforts of Kristy C. in Valdosta, GA and the great students at Lowndes Co. High School. We gave the kids a ‘belated’ Christmas celebration 4 kilos oranges, 4 kilos bananas (fruit was difficult to find at the market), cookies, candy, homemade lemonade (which was a big hit with the kids), composition books, and boxes of pencils (thanks to Hania Little), and little toy gifts for each child. We are so happy to report that this internot facility made it to the city playoffs in basketball! A huge accomplishment for an orphanage facility, and we are very proud of the boys. The coach had requested one thing, a leather basketball. While we were in Donetsk we made this purchase. After returning to Dzerzhinsk, we were able to present the gift to the coach, who was speechless! He stated that the regular school receives all the really great equipment, and the Internot’s get the leftovers. His Kids, Too! is going to work on changing that. We hope that you will help! Additionally, several VHS tapes (in Russian) were left for the kids.

 

The next stop was the ‘New York’ Internot, where the pipes had also frozen and blizzard conditions, so there were only 40 kids there. They received bananas, oranges, tangerines, cookies, candy and lemonade, all was a big hit! The kids also received 4 large boxes containing an assortment of clothing, shoes, (thank you Buckner International) and toiletries. This facility will be home to His Kids, Too! first Bible Camp, and they are waiting with great expectation for the summer to arrive.

 

To round out the aid to the village of Dzerzhinsk, we made a visit to the Artum Orphan Hospital. They were delighted to see us, and happy with the boxes of baby clothes (thank you Neve and Friends), toys, and asked for a couple of needed items (scales and potties). We were able to fill that request, and later returned with those items.

 

Getting to Donetsk was the next challenge due to the weather. We had at a minimum 700+ lbs. of humanitarian aid to get there, but road conditions were impassable. We waited a day and sorted more aid, and prepared for the trip. It was important to be organized on the delivery stops on the way to Donetsk, while we had a driver and a big enough vehicle to take boxes. Due to the weather, many drivers just refused to work, in addition to the high fuel costs. One had to ‘book’ a driver days in advance. As we left for Donetsk, we made several stops along the way to drop off aid to different places and families that His Kids, Too! serves.

 

Arriving in Donetsk, the first stop was Our Children. The director, a very pleasant person, was happy to see us, and 3 huge boxes of aid were left at this facility. Additionally, Lynn and Ray, the board members who live in Ukraine, met us. We were allowed to interact with several of the children, and dressed them in new clothes, and presented many new toys to them.

The next stop was the Teremok Orthopedic Hospital. The director, a totally delightful woman, was happy to see us, though surprised, since it is usually Teresa that travels. They currently have 57 children, but that number fluctuates. Vitamins were requested and purchased for the facility, along with requested fever reducer (which we had already). Discussion on the plight of CP children and adults ensued, as the director has full knowledge of this topic. She was able to shed some light on this, which gave us a greater understanding of the urgency of making some decisions concerning our future role with this population. Two large boxes of winter clothing, along with one box of toys were left with this facility.

 

After some rest, the next stop was the local Homeless Shelter/Transition Home for ex-convicts, and adults living on the street. Greeted by the director, he gave a full tour of the facility to us. The director was very open about the facility, their mission to the community, and was clear to state that their facility was the only one of it’s kind in the region. They were able to feed and sleep 30 persons, but with some renovations (His Kids, Too! was able to help with mattresses and bed linens), they now can help 50 persons. He was very gracious and happy to receive 3 large boxes of adult men’s winter clothing.

 

Moving on, the next stop was the Homeless Children’s Shelter. This facility usually home to 75 children, but due to the harsh winter 150 children were seeking refuge at the facility. They were packed, and happy to receive the 4 large boxes of winter clothing. We thank Glendale Rd. Church of Christ for the great winter coats.

 

The final stop for this day was the Aids Hospital, where His Kids, Too! is well known. The Director and head Dr. were happy to see the group, and graciously toured the facility with them, allowing for lots of photos. The hospital was almost at max. capacity of 85, 14 of the children have confirmed Aids, the rest are in the testing process to determine a diagnosis. Obvious signs of aid left by His Kids, Too! on previous visits were evident, crib mobiles, blankets, clothing, toys, the children were happy and are well cared for. Diapers were requested, and immediately purchased and sent to the facility.

 

Returning to Dzerzhinsk, the trip was coming to an end, but the snow was still coming down! Each facility received another visit, delivering requested items that were purchased in Donetsk. Each time, we were warmly greeted, and encouraged by the enthusiasm of the children. On each visit more fruit, cookies, and juice were distributed to the children. The winter was very harsh, and many children are sick with colds, fever, respiratory infections, etc.

 

This trip also was the beginning of a pilot program for orphans. We are excited about this program, and will provide more details as the program develops. The main goal is an effort to keep children out of the Specialized Children’s home, and the Invalid Homes. The city of Dzerzhinsk is embracing this program, and we are happy to provide the service to the community and children.

Plans were finalized for the Spring workshop and plans for the Summer Camp were formulated.  Wehn Teresa comes in Spring, all this will be completed. Thank you again for your prayers, concerns, and commitment to the orphans in Ukraine, without your help we could not do this vital work of reaching the lost for Christ. We are all called to ‘go’ (Matthew 28:18) some go to the store and purchase items to be sent to Ukraine, some are called to organize collection of clothing, some write a check to help someone else ‘go’, or to help with the work there, some pray for those who do ‘go’, some pray for the orphans, and some travel thousands of miles and ‘go’ to Ukraine. All equally important, and we all play a role in the great commission. Thank you!

 

In His Service,

Rich Fillmon

Director of Communications/His Kids, Too!

 

October 2006

October 2006

To the Director of the International Charitable Organization “HIS KIDS TOO!”,
Teresa Fillmon

Letter of Appreciation

The administration of the Shactersk City Shelter for minors “Zvyozochka” thanks you for your acts of charity (for the delivery of 30 pillows, 22 mattresses and electric water heater) towards our children, who are left without the guardianship of parents and find themselves in complicated living situations. Thank you very much for your care for our children!
T. P. Borot

Director of the Shelter pillows.jpg


Gratitude – October 2006

The workers of the children’s department of the City Hospital # 1 of the city of Dzerzhinsk express their sincere gratitude to Teresa Fillmon, the director of charity fund “His Kids, Too!” for care, attention and love and involvement in the lives of the children at the Children’s department who are deprived of parental care.

Because of you and your supporters we know that there is kindness and love for children in this world. The hearts of our workers and children are filled with joy and love every time you pay a visit to us. And this is the best reward for you help.

We are always happy to see you in our facility. Communication with you makes our souls kinder and brighter.

We wish you much happiness, dear Teresa, energy in your hard but necessary and noble work.